Mediation

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Mediation can be your solution for divorce disputes. Rather than spending money, time, and stress in the courtroom and with attorneys, mediation offers a holistic solution to resolving and coming to an agreement. A trained family law mediator, such as our attorneys Jeanie Colella and Shon Cook, guides the process by discussing options, solutions, and outcomes. Mediation can occur at any stage of the divorce process, even before a divorce is filed. The sooner the parties start addressing the issues and working through the divorce, the better.

At Tabono Law, we understand that divorce and family matters can create tension and stress. Our goal is to help you reach realistic agreements and find solutions as efficiently as possible. Partner with us and find support from trained professionals who can guide you through the divorce process.

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What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process in which a neutral third party, called a mediator, helps two or more parties involved in a dispute to communicate, understand each other’s perspectives, and find a mutually acceptable solution. The mediator does not make decisions for the parties or impose any outcomes, but facilitates the conversation to help them reach a resolution on their own.

Key features of mediation:

Voluntary

Participation in mediation is typically voluntary, meaning that the parties involved choose to enter the process and can withdraw at any time.

Confidential

Mediation is generally confidential, and the information discussed during the sessions cannot be used in court if the mediation doesn’t lead to a resolution.

Neutrality

The mediator remains neutral and does not take sides. Their role is to guide the conversation and ensure that both parties have an opportunity to express their views.

Informed Decision-making

Mediation helps parties make informed decisions by clarifying their interests and needs, often leading to creative solutions that would be difficult to achieve through litigation.

Collaboration
The focus of mediation is on cooperation, with the goal of finding a solution that is agreeable to everyone involved, rather than having a win-lose outcome like in litigation.

Benefits of mediation:

Cost-effective
Mediation is usually less expensive than going to court.
Faster
Mediation can be completed much more quickly than litigation.
Preserves relationships
By focusing on collaboration and communication, mediation can help maintain or even improve relationships, which is especially important in family, business, or workplace disputes.
Control
The parties have more control over the outcome, as opposed to a judge making a decision for them. Mediation is commonly used in areas such as family disputes (divorce, child custody), workplace conflicts, commercial disputes, and community disagreements.

process of mediation

Introduction

The mediator explains the rules, purpose, and goals of the mediation process.

Opening Statements

Each party has the opportunity to explain their point of view.

Issue Identification

The mediator helps the parties identify the key issues in the dispute.

Negotiation

The mediator helps the parties identify the key issues in the dispute.

Agreement

If the parties reach a resolution, the mediator helps them formalize the agreement, which may be written down and signed.

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Let’s find a solution together

Let us support you and your family as you sort through these important matters. Our legal team is ready to help you resolve your conflict so you can return to peace and stability.

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